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Dr. Marie Whelan

PhD, APCC, ABS

Sex & Relationship Therapist, Educator, Speaker, Author, Blogger - Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #12438

It's always difficult to write something in this part of the website. Too much, and you sound full of yourself. Too little, and you sound like you don't know what you are doing. 

But I do know this...I truly love being a counselor. I love talking to people and helping them clear decades of blocks to becoming the best person you can become. I spend most of my free time learning more techniques to becoming a better therapist and bringing those skills into the room with my clients.

Life is not perfect and healing is not linear. But we can work together to make it as good as possible. I look forward to meeting you!

Marie

Dr. Marie Whelan is a Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor and is supervised by Kira Monterrey.  Marie takes a holistic and collaborative approach to treatment, that emphasizes creating a safe, non-judgmental, and trusting therapeutic relationship to allow for client self-exploration, authenticity, and achievement.

On a personal note, Marie has experienced marriage, divorce, dating, raising and launching children from the nest, life-threatening illness, loved ones’ addictions, grief and loss, and she draws from her education and training as well as from her life experience to offer empathy and connection with her clients along their therapeutic journeys.

Marie found her counseling calling in helping others reclaim their power after adversity and discover their true, authentic life. Together we can clear blocks to becoming fully you that has been lost and buried. We will process anger, frustration, resentment, anxiety, depression, stress, apathy, fear, that manifest to become problems in relationships, sexuality, communication, and work problems.

Supervised by Raquel Hare, M.S., LMFT, CA Lic#120707

See more at:  Marie Whelan - Relationship Sex Therapy, Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, Brentwood, CA, 94513 | Psychology Today 

“Be yourself – not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.”

– Henry David Thoreau -

Where does Dr Whelan see clients?

In-Person and Online

Is Dr Whelan accepting new clients?

Yes

What clients does Dr Whelan work with?

Teens, Adults, & Couples; Aged 16 and older; LGBTQIA++ Friendly 

Does Dr Whelan accept insurance?

No, private pay only

What are Dr Whelan's session fees?

$200/hour individual and $300/hour couples

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Does Dr. Whelan have any specialized certifications?

​PhD in Clinical Sexology.

Accelerated Resolution Therapy Trained Clinician

What are Dr Whelan's specializations?

ADHD, Anxiety, Body Positivity, Codependency, Depression, Divorce, Infertility, Infidelity, LGBTQIA++ Issues, Life Transitions, Marital & Pre-Marital, Men's Issues, Parenting, Open Relationships/Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), Relationship Issues, Self Esteem/Self-Worth, Self-Harming, Sex Therapy, Sex-Positive/Kink Allied, Sexual Dysfunction, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Women's Issues

Specialties:
  • Attachment Issues

  • Anxiety, panic attacks, and depression

  • Gender identity, questioning, & fluidity

  • Empty-Nest, Menopause, and Mid-Life Depression

  • Age-related Sexual Dysfunctions

  • Communication and Boundary-Setting

  • Self-Worth / Self-Esteem

  • Self-Sabotage, Procrastination, Loss of Control & Goal-Setting

  • Sexuality, divorce, infidelity, parenting/co-parenting, polyamory/ethical non-monogamy, and BDSM/kink 

  • Stress management 

  • Spiritual/Existential Questioning

Therapeutic Methodologies and Modalities:
  • Art / Journaling Therapy

  • Attachment-Based Therapy (ABT)

  • Attachment-Focused  Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (AF-EMDR)

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

  • Ecotherapy / Nature Therapy

  • Emotional Freedom Technique - Tapping

  • Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) / Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT)

  • Existential Psychotherapy

  • Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR)

  • Gottman Couples Therapy

  • Holistic and Nutritional Counseling

  • LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Therapy

  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)

  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)

  • Positive Psychology Therapy

  • Sex-Therapy

  • Short-Term Solution-Focused Therapy (STSF) / Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

  • Somatic Psychotherapy

  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

Certifications:
  • ART - Accelerated Resolution Therapy

  • EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy - ICEEFT

  • EFIT - Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy - ICEEFT

  • CCATP – Certified Clinical Anxiety Trauma Professional - PESI

  • EMDR – Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing Trained - EMDRIA

  • Fundamentals of Positive Psychology Certification- University of Pennsylvania

 

Locations: 

Telehealth, East Bay - Brentwood

Clients: 

Adults, Teens, Pre-Teens, Couples, Groups

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